Greg Sutphin

International Adoptions Decrease

According to statistics from the U.S. State Department, the number of children adopted into the United States has dropped dramatically in the last decade. Sources say that there were just under 6,500 international adoptions in 2014, down from the peak of around 23,000 in 2004. Families seeking to adopt are also finding that it’s taking a lot longer to complete an adoption. In 2000, the average time it took to complete an adoption in China was about nine months. Some couples are now waiting nearly nine years to do the same thing. Sources say it’s the lowest rate for international adoptions since 1982.

One of the major reasons for the decline was the decision by Russia to discontinue any adoptions by Americans. Before 2012, the country was one of the major sources for families seeking to adopt internationally. China is still the most popular place for adoptive families to go, with more than 2,000 children adopted from China every year. Just a decade ago, though, there were almost 8,000 children adopted from China. Ethiopia is now second in the number of children adopted into the United States, with the Ukraine and Haiti third and fourth, respectively.

State officials say that one of the challenges to the international adoption process has been the Hague Convention on Intercountry Adoption. When the convention was introduced, it was hoped that it would facilitate international adoption by eliminating concerns about human trafficking. As it’s turned out in practice, it’s actually made international adoptions more challenging by requiring a lot more paperwork and obstacles.

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Improving Your Chances for a Successful Single-Parent Adoption

Though it’s far easier in today’s world to adopt as a single parent than it was 50 year ago (you couldn’t do it then), it’s still not a simple process. Many agencies will simply not work with you and others will give priority to couples seeking to adopt. Here are some tips from single parents who have successfully adopted.

Prepare Financially

One of the significant concerns from adoption professionals is the fact that single parents typically have only one source of income. If that income goes away—a job is lost or the parent cannot work—the child may not have his or her material needs met. Accordingly, you want to prepare in advance. Try to get 3-6 months worth of expenses into savings, so that you have something to meet your needs in the event of a temporary job loss. Determine how much time you will need to take off from work when your adopted child first comes home with you, and put money away to cover that time period.

Build a Network of Support

Raising a child is hard work and can wear you out emotionally and physically. When there are two parents, it’s much easier to get a break. If you are a single parent, you’ll want to find family and friends who can offer you the same type of respite on an occasional basis. Otherwise, you may develop some resentment that your child has left you no time for yourself.

Be Prepared for the Social Stigma Associated with Single Parenting

Though the acceptance of divorce has made single parenting more prevalent, there’s still a common perception that there must be two parents in the home to raise a well-adjusted and emotionally healthy child. To get a different perspective, look for single parent groups in your area, or get to know other single parents, so that you can share successes and failures together, and see that you are not alone.

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Adopting Special Needs Children—The Challenges

According to statistics, there are more than 100,000 children with special needs who are waiting to be adopted. Unfortunately, it’s a much more complicated process to complete a special needs adoption. If you are interested in adopting a special needs child, here are some factors to consider.

What Is a “Special Needs” Child?

A special needs child is any child who has a physical, mental or emotional disability, or who needs special education or training of any sort. A special needs child can be any age, but the guidelines vary from state to state. As a general rule, though, special needs children are older and frequently are members of an ethnic or racial minority. They can be victims of physical or emotional abuse, or may have been prenatally exposed to drugs or alcohol.

Are There Different Requirements to Adopt Special Needs Children?

As a general rule, anyone who can qualify to adopt a child can qualify to adopt a special needs child. Every agency will have its own specific requirements, so you’ll need to check and may need to interview a few different agencies to ensure that you qualify. Most agencies allow single or married couples to adopt special needs children, but may have a requirement that you’ve been married for minimum period of time.

What Are the Costs of Adopting a Special Needs Child?

It’s not uncommon for an adoption agency to either charge no fee or only a small fee to parents adopting a special needs child. In addition, there are state and federal programs that provide assistance to parents adopting special needs children.

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PA Superior Court Declares Gestational Carrier Agreements to be Enforceable

On November 23, 2015 the Superior Court of Pennsylvania, the first Appellate level before a matter goes to the Pennsylvania Supreme Court, issued an opinion confirming the lower Court’s decision and finding that a Gestational Carrier Agreement is enforceable in Pennsylvania.

This opinion came from a case which I have discussed in an earlier blog and which has been all over the news involving a TV personality. In that case she and her husband had obtained an egg from an anonymous donor which was then fertilized by the sperm of her husband. The embryo was transferred to a gestational carrier pursuant to a very detailed and specific Gestational Carrier Agreement. Mid way through the pregnancy the intended parents separated with the intention of divorcing. The intended mother at that point decided that since she had no genetic relationship with the child she should not be required to serve as the child’s mother, but rather the gestational carrier would be responsible.

After a trial the Court determined that but for the Agreement by and between the intended parents and the carrier, the child would never have been created. Additionally, based upon the statements and activities of the intended mother the Court found that she should be responsible for this child. The intended mother appealed this to the Superior Court of Pennsylvania which issued an opinion affirming the trial judge’s decision.

At this time we do not know if the Supreme Court of Pennsylvania will be asked to review this. In the meantime, this now becomes the settled law in Pennsylvania.

Preparing to Adopt a Child — Some Things You Need to Consider

If you are planning or considering adoption as a way of starting or building a family, here are some things you’ll want to factor into your decision, especially if you’ve never had a child before.

There’s a lot to learn—Raising a child involves a whole lot more than sitting back and watching them grow. You’ll want to know about developmental landmarks, such as walking and talking, and you’ll want to know as much as you can about proper nutrition, sleep habits and toilet training. Most expectant mothers attend childbirth classes, and similar programs are available for adoptive parents. It’s a good idea to participate in one.
You will likely have to bottle-feed your child—You may be able to take hormones that allow you to breast feed, but adoptive mothers, as a general rule, have a more difficult time producing breast milk.
Be prepared to celebrate two special days every year—You may choose to celebrate your child’s birthday and your child’s adoption day. In reality, this is more for the adoptive parents than the child.
Be prepared for lots of questions—Because adoption is not the traditional way that people build a family, it can stimulate curiosity in those who have never done it. You may be subjected to odd or even inappropriate questions, such as how much your adoption cost or even details about the child’s biological family. One family that adopted an infant from China was bemused when a well-meaning relative asked if the 10-month-old girl “had a Chinese accent.”

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Every Child Deserves a Family Act

Senator Kirsten Gillibrand (D-NY) and Representative John Lewis (D-GA) introduced an
Act in both Houses of Congress to prohibit any adoption or foster care entity which receives federal assistance from discriminating based on sexual orientation, gender identity, or marital status. The purpose of prohibiting discrimination was to also make sure that children would be placed in families who have met all of the qualifications for parenting.

Private vs. Agency Adoption—What’s Best for You?

If you’ve been exploring the possibility of adopting a child, you’ve likely discovered that it’s not a simple process. You have lots of choices—domestic vs. international adoption, open vs. closed adoption, and agency vs. private adoption. This blog looks at the differences between private and agency adoptions.

With an agency adoption, you hire and pay an agency to handle all matters related to the adoption. You typically don’t retain your own legal counsel—that’s all handled by the agency. Your agency will ensure that you complete all required paperwork and that a home study is done. Agency personnel will either work to match you with potential birth mothers (in a domestic adoption) or ensure that you get on the waiting list and fulfill all the requirements for an international adoption.

With a private adoption, you have to take responsibility for all the things the agency would do. Most people who opt for a private adoption hire an adoption attorney early in the process. In many instances, that attorney has connections to help the adoptive parents find a potential birth mother. However, the adoptive parents may need to be creative about finding ways to notify potential birth mothers of their desire to adopt. In addition, the adoptive parents will have to hire someone (typically from an agency) to conduct a home study.

So why would you choose a private adoption over an agency adoption? It seems like a lot more work, doesn’t it? Most people who choose to the private adoption track cite two principal reasons for doing so. First, many agencies have fairly strict requirements for adoption, which can exclude some potential parents. For example, an agency may have a policy of not placing a child with a parent over the age of 50 (or even younger). In addition, many adoptive parents find that the agency process can be more cumbersome and that a private adoption can take less time.

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Single Parent Adoption

Times have changed dramatically for individuals seeking to adopt a child in the United States. Fifty years ago, if you had sought to adopt a minor child as a single parent, you would have had no success, and not necessarily because adoption agencies looked with disfavor on the idea. In some states, as recently as 25 years ago, there were laws on the books that prohibited single-parent adoptions. Over the last two decades, those limitations have evaporated. Studies now show that one in four special needs adoptions involves a single parent and that about one in 20 of all adoptions are by single men or women.

Experts say that a number of factors have contributed to the shift in thinking and practice. First, as late as the 1960s, most moms were stay-at-home parents, and the concept of daycare was still an exception to the rule. In today’s world, the stay-at-home mom is the exception to the rule and it’s socially acceptable for children to spend much of their formative years in daycare. Fifty years ago, adoption agencies worried that a single parent would either face financial challenges from staying home with the child or not be involved in the child’s upbringing.

The other change, especially with special needs adoptions, is the lessened focus on the personal finances of the parent. Many states offer subsidies or financial assistance to parents adopting special needs children, so families with a single income are better able to meet the material needs of the child.

That’s not to say that single applicants have attained parity with married applicants. Many adoption agencies still choose not to work with single parents. Others may accept your application, but give priority to couples who come into their offices.

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The Federal Family and Medical Leave Act (FFMLA)

The Federal Family and Medical Leave Act or FFMLA was passed a number of years ago to help families who have a new child with them. This also covered adoption maternity and paternity leave for adoptive or foster parents. This Act applies to all businesses with at least 50 employees as well as all state and local governments and all public and private schools. The Act mandates up to 12 weeks of unpaid job protective leave per year, and with continued insurance benefits.

In order to qualify for Family Leave, for a business with at least 50 employees, the employee must have worked for the employer for at least 12 months and for at least 1,250 hours over those 12 months and at a location within 75 miles of where the 50 or more employees work. While this is provided for under federal law, states may have their own version of this law and it is therefore advisable for any new parents to check to see if that is the case. The leave can only be taken within 12 months following the birth or the placement of a child. Since this applies to adoptive parents, the leave could be taken separately and need not be taken together which would then provide 24 weeks of unpaid leave. However, if the parents are working for the same employer, the 12 weeks are combined.

Although this discussion involves the federal FMLA, many states now have requirements that mandate smaller companies to participate in these programs, with some even requiring a certain amount of pay for time off. It is important that all adoptive parents and prospective adoptive parents review their state laws. The National Conference of State Legislatures maintains a website that may provide additional information.

International Adoptions Continue to Decline

Twenty years ago, if you wanted to adopt an infant from China, you could almost get in line, wait 12-15 months and travel to the Orient to pick up your child. The chances were about 99-to-1 that you’d bring home a girl, unless you were willing to adopt a special needs boy, but the process was streamlined and had enjoyed steady growth over a number of decades. Over the last decade, though, that trend has completely reversed. And it’s not just adoptions from China, it’s international adoptions overall.

Consider these statistics. In 2004, nearly 23,000 foreign adoptees came into the United States. Just seven years later, the number was less than 10,000. In 2004, more than 13,000 children were adopted from China—by 2011, the number had dropped by more than 10,000.

According to adoption authorities, the trend has nothing to do with either supply or demand. There are just as many, if not more, children in orphanages in China and around the world, and there are just as many adoptive parents who want a child. Experts say it’s a change in attitude in those countries where the children live. Countries like China and Russia are finding that more and more people oppose sending orphans out of the country.

In addition, many foreign countries have implemented new rules making it harder for those most inclined and able to adopt to do so. The typical parent in a foreign adoption is older, and it’s not been uncommon for many to be single moms. In 2007, China changed its rules, prohibiting anyone over 50 from adopting, as well as single parents. The ban on single women was lifted in 2011, but all single adoptive mothers must now sign an affidavit swearing they are not gay. Families must also have at least $10,000 in income per family member and a minimum of $80,000 in assets.

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