Some Information On Surrogacy Contracts

Some Information on Surrogacy Contracts

Surrogacy contracts, which are also known as gestational carrier agreements, are documents that define the rights and responsibilities of surrogate mothers and intended parents. These contracts are used for all gestational surrogacies in New Jersey, and fertility clinics will not perform surrogacy procedures unless a legally binding agreement is in place.

The New Jersey Gestational Carrier Agreement Act

New Jersey lawmakers passed the Gestational Carrier Agreement Act in 2018. Prior to this law’s passage, paid surrogacy arrangements were illegal in the Garden State. The law created strict requirements that all parties to a gestational surrogacy must meet. These requirements include:

  • The surrogate mother and intended parents must be represented by attorneys familiar with this area of the law.
  • The surrogate mother must be at least 21 years of age.
  • The surrogate mother must have given birth to at least one child before entering into the agreement.
  • The surrogate mother must undergo a thorough medical and psychological evaluation.
  • The intended parents must undergo a thorough psychological evaluation.
  • The agreement must state that the intended parents will accept custody of the child.
  • The agreement must state that the surrogate mother will allow the intended parents to accept custody of the child.

The intended parents who sign surrogacy agreements in New Jersey are usually married couples, but they do not have to be. The Gestational Carrier Agreement Act allows individuals and unmarried couples to enter into agreements with surrogate mothers, and same-sex couples have the same rights as opposite-sex couples.

Gestational and Traditional Surrogacy

The Gestational Carrier Agreement Act, which was revised in 2023, applies when the surrogate mother is compensated and undergoes in vitro fertilization procedures to become pregnant. The law does not apply when the surrogate mother’s own eggs are fertilized. Traditional surrogacies are legal in New Jersey, but the surrogate mother can only be compensated for her food, shelter and medical and counseling costs. The vast majority of surrogacies in New Jersey are gestational surrogacies.

The Importance of Qualified Legal Representation

New Jersey law requires surrogate mothers and intended parents to each be represented by a New Jersey adoption attorney when they enter into surrogacy contracts, but this would be advisable even if it were not a legal requirement. Qualified legal representation ensures that the agreement will be fair and legally enforceable and protect the rights of all parties involved. The entire process is far less stressful for intended parents and surrogate mothers when the negotiations are handled by lawyers. The provisions of a surrogacy contact should cover matters including:

  • The surrogate mother’s compensation and how that compensation will be modified if more than one egg is fertilized
  • The surrogate mother’s responsibility to maintain a healthy lifestyle during the pregnancy
  • Whether or not the intended parents will attend prenatal appointments and be present at the birth
  • The conditions that would necessitate the termination of the pregnancy

The Surrogacy Contract Procedure

Drafting a surrogacy contract should be a collaborative process. The initial draft of the contract is usually written by the attorney representing the intended parents and sent to the surrogate mother’s lawyer. The surrogate mother and her attorney will then discuss the terms of the agreement. If the surrogate mother is not happy with the agreement and proposes changes, her attorney and the intended parents’ attorney will negotiate until an agreement is reached that satisfies all parties.

Legal Advice and Representation for Intended Parents and Surrogates

If you are a New Jersey resident and plan to enter into a gestational surrogacy arrangement, you will need to abide by the provisions of the Gestational Carrier Agreement Act. This means that you will require the services of an experienced New Jersey adoption attorney. The law firm of Cofsky & Zeidman has over 25 years of experience in this area, and we are ready to answer any questions you have. You can call our Haddonfield office at (856) 429-5005, or you can use our online form to schedule a consultation.

The Birth Mother Changed Her Mind About Adoption: Now What?

What if the Birth Mother Wants to Keep the Baby?

Only about 6% of birth mothers change their minds about adoption. However, if the birth mother does suddenly decide she wants to keep the child and there is a contested adoption, the adoptive parents should immediately retain a New Jersey adoption lawyer. It is fair to wonder what might happen after the birth mother changes her mind once the adoption is complete.

How Can the Birth Mother’s Rights End?

If a birth mother chooses to give up her child for adoption, the easiest way to do it is to surrender the child to an adoption agency. Once this happens, within three days, barring any exceptions, her parental rights to the child will end.

 

Adoption agencies are required to do certain things for the birth mother or birth parents if both are involved in the surrender. Before the child is given up to subsequently be adopted by adoptive parents, the agency is required to ensure that the birth mother undergoes at least three counseling sessions with a qualified social worker. The goal is to make sure that the birth mother is both mentally and emotionally prepared to give up custody of the child to the adoptive parents.

 

The agency must also make sure both natural parents sign a statement that says they attended counseling sessions and that they understand what was said in the statement. In some cases, they might refuse counseling but must still sign a statement.

 

Additionally, the agency is required to have the biological parents sign a statement that says that it went over all of the provisions of the adoption and advise them on how to get more information from the Department of Health.

What Happens if a Birth Mother Changes Her Mind?

If the birth mother changes her mind, the court must review the matter and make a decision based on certain factors. If the adoption agency committed fraud, misrepresentation, or put the birth mother under duress, the surrender of the child could be legally reversed, giving her the child back. However, if the adoption was done legally and the agency did everything in the legal, proper way, then the adoptive parents would keep the child.

 

Regardless of the laws being on the side of the adoptive parents in that regard, it is still wise to retain an experienced New Jersey adoption lawyer if the adoption is being contested.

 

The court will also always take into consideration what’s in the best interest of the child. If the birth mother suddenly decides months after the adoption was finalized that she wants the child back, the court will consider the psychological effects on the child if they were suddenly taken away from the only family they have ever known. A legal adoption will typically not be nullified in this situation.

Exceptions to the Rule

Of course, there may be exceptions to the rule when it comes to reversing an adoption decision. In addition to fraud on the part of the adoption agency, this might happen when there’s a problem with the adoptive parents such as serious health issues or disabilities that prevent them from raising the child and properly providing for them. However, if the child has certain unexpected needs that are impossible for the parents to meet, the adoption might be nullified.

 

These are extreme situations, as in most cases, the adoptive parents will get to keep the child. It is important to know what your rights and options are as the adoptive parents when the birth mother suddenly changes her mind. Knowing the facts will help you to see whether the law is on your side in such a scenario.

 

If you are looking to adopt in New Jersey and need an attorney to help you, contact Donald Cofsky at Cofsky & Zeidman today by calling (856) 429-5005. We will be glad to answer any questions you may have and walk you through your options.