When you adopt a child, you may want to change their name. This is common and can be an important part of helping the child feel like part of the family. In many cases, you can change the child’s name during the adoption process. If not, you can still do it after the adoption is final. Here’s how it works.

Why Change a Child’s Name?

There are different reasons families choose to change a child’s name. Sometimes, adoptive parents want to give the child a new first or last name. This could be to match the family’s last name or to give the child a name with special meaning. In some cases, the child helps choose their new name.

No matter the reason, changing a name can help build a stronger sense of belonging.

When Can You Change the Name?

You can usually ask the judge to change the child’s name at the final adoption hearing. This is the easiest time to do it because everything is already going through the court. The judge can approve the name change in the same order that makes the adoption final.

If you don’t change the name during the adoption, you can still do it later. You’ll just need to file a separate name change request with the court.

How Do You Change the Name?

If the adoption is still in progress, you can:

1. Talk to your adoption lawyer.

2. Ask them to include the name change in your adoption paperwork.

3. At the final adoption hearing, the judge can approve the new name.

If the adoption is already complete, you’ll need to:

1. Fill out a name change form from your local court.

2. Pay a filing fee (this amount depends on where you live).

3. Attend a short court hearing, where the judge reviews your request.

In some places, the judge may ask why you want the name change. It’s helpful to explain that the child is adopted and that the new name will make them feel more connected to their family.

Do You Need a Lawyer?

You don’t always need a lawyer to change a name. But having one can make things easier, especially if you’re unsure what forms to file or how the court process works. An experienced adoption attorney can guide you and help avoid delays.

What Happens After the Name Is Changed?

Once the judge approves the new name, you’ll get a legal paper called a court order. This paper shows the old name and the new name. You’ll use it to update important documents like:

• The child’s birth certificate

• Social Security card

• School records

• Health insurance

• Passport (if needed)

You may need certified copies of the court order to make these changes.

What If the Child Is Old Enough to Decide?

In some states, if the child is old enough (usually age 10 or older), the court may ask for their opinion. This helps make sure the child agrees with the name change and feels comfortable. Talking about the change ahead of time can help the child feel more included.

Changing a child’s name after adoption is a personal decision. It can be a meaningful way to show that your child is a full part of your family. Whether you do it during the adoption or afterward, the legal steps are usually simple—but it’s important to follow the right process.

If you have questions about name changes or adoption, it helps to work with a lawyer who understands family formation law.

At the Law Office of Cofsky & Zeidman, LLC, we’ve helped over 1,500 families through adoption and legal name changes. We’ll make sure every step is done right. Call us today at (856) 429-5005 in Haddonfield, NJ, (856) 845-2555 in Woodbury, NJ, or (215) 563-2150 in Philadelphia, PA. We’re here to help you and your family.